Robert Frost wrote that good fences make good neighbors, but it might be more accurate to say good fence etiquette makes good neighbors. When a neighbor’s fence conflicts with your own design goals or infringes on your property lines, it may begin an ongoing struggle with your neighbors over the proper use of your adjoining outdoor spaces. In the interest of fostering peace and better outdoor design, the Fence Authority will address common questions about fence conflicts over the next few weeks: problems that persist over years and leave neighborhood discord in their wake.
This first part of the series discusses what to do when your neighbors surround your yard with mismatching fences. Looks like it’s time to go on the D-Fence!
While there are always factors out of your control when you’re designing your yard, few things can complicate your outdoor plans more than sharing borders with one, two, or three other households. This is especially true when your neighbors all have different styles of fencing, whether it’s as minor as different colors or as major as different heights or materials.
In an ideal world, you would have coordinated with your neighbors before they installed their fences, but sometimes circumstances are against us. However, all is not lost. Instead of allowing your resentment to simmer, here are a few actions you can take:
Option 1: Getting Your Neighbors to Cooperate
It’s likely that your neighbors will be reasonable about what you do with your side of their fences, since they won’t see your side anyway. Painting the side of the fence that faces your yard is an easy way to get differing colors of fencing to match and therefore make them much more pleasing to your eye. This option makes most sense if your neighbors have a wood fence.
Best case scenario: If they’ve been considering a new fence anyway and agree that theirs is a terrible sight, then you’re in luck because you can work together to find a solution that makes you both happy.
Option 2: Gardening with Shrubbery and Vines for Privacy
While painting a wood privacy fence is a possible solution, what if one of your neighbors has a fence that doesn’t lend itself to painting, such as an aluminum fence? They may also simply not want you to paint their fence.
If you’re looking at a fence that can’t be improved with a coat of paint, planting a hedgerow or other shrubbery is a good way to soften your yard’s appearance, hide your neighbor’s fence, and give you some privacy. Your neighbor may also be open to turning it into a living fence. Creeping vines and aluminum fences in particular go together like roses and thorns. Trees or topiaries can also provide a measure of privacy if you’d like a space safe from prying eyes.
Option 3: Incorporating Your Neighbor’s Fences into Your Design
While being surrounded by different types of fencing may seem frustrating, a little creativity can turn a blessing into a curse. Transforming your yard into an outdoor living space, complete with “rooms” for leisure, cooking, gardening or other activities, could be easier with two or three different “walls” to work with! For example, gardening next to a chain link fence could provide structural support for certain kinds of climbing plants, while a tall, wooden or composite privacy fence can serve as the perfect backdrop for a standalone deck or a minimalist, zen-inspired space perfect for contemplation and relaxation.
Option 4: Installing Your Own Privacy Fence
Perhaps none of your neighbors welcomes your brilliant ideas for living fences or accepts your offer to paint a whole side of their fence, free of charge. Perhaps trees and topiaries just aren’t on your vision board and you’d prefer the elegant but functional look of your own privacy fence. You always have the option of installing your own fence next to your neighbors’. This could be the easiest way to make your yard’s appearance more uniform, especially if looking at different heights of fence on all sides of your property, day in and day out, is keeping you up at night.
While designing your yard is a challenge when your neighbors have you fenced in, it’s easy to turn it into an opportunity to make your yard a unique outdoor living space, sowing the seeds of neighborly peace where unrest once reigned.
Have you come up with a brilliant aesthetic or functional solution to a neighbor’s unadorned chain link fence? Do you just need to vent about being stuck between an unfinished wood fence and a dark gray vinyl fence? Commiserate and scheme by dropping us a line in the comments!